the new sikatuna royalties: chan, cola and cali (mga apo ni auntie bing2x)
Sikatuna is the street in Cebu where I grew up. I stayed in my grandparent’s house after the Creek (sapa). The house was made of wood and nipa. We had a bayabas tree and kamunggay grown in the garden. The toilet was a separate shed outside the gate but was concrete. We washed using kabo and water, toilet paper was not in fashion then. We got drinking water from the tabay (deep well). And there was a water pump across the kitchen where we could watch neighbors get water, do the laundry and bathe.
It was in Sikatuna that I learned mahjong, scrabble & jai alai. We had carpenters, barbers, tailors, electricians, fortune tellers, magdalenas, public school teachers, manicuristas, witches, ex convicts, drunkards, butchers, gays, lesbians, very old sick people, lunatics and a frustrated lawyer as our neighbors.
And I was the creekside princess. =)
While the other kids would go to Zapatera public school and Abellana high school, I went to St. Theresa’s College (an exclusive girl school). We all walked to school, us Sikatuna kids. I think the reason why I love old houses is because I dreamt of living in one of those Sepulveda street houses I pass along my way to school.
We would string rubber bands together in a long strand of 24’s and sold it at 10 cents per strand on weekends. We would fill baskets with them. And in the evenings, played BINGO with our 10 cents.
Although I grew up among the lower half of the society, I grew up believing I was not like the other kids I played with. My grandmother did not allow me to play outside the house. The other kids would have to take a bath and smell good before they can come and play with me. And they had to dress clean as well.
My grandmother cooks VERY well and she served us delicious merienda food after playing. My playmates did not mind her strict rules for getting into the house.
We played in the garden or at the kayda. They never raised their voices. They never fought with me because they were very scared of my half spanish & half bisdak grandmother. She protected me and disciplined me like I was truly royalty.
My grandfather worked at Atlas mining. He would wake up at 3:30 am to ride the bus early so he gets to Toledo. He walks to the bus station to save his money. When he came home, he always brought back hot bread called Francis.
The old politicians of Cebu knew Lolo and would visit our Sikatuna payag. They would consult him and ask his opinions on some matters while he would ask them to make improvements in Sikatuna (as exchange deal for his advices). Street lights, so criminals from Lorega would not make Sikatuna an escape route. A concrete taytayan to replace the old wooden bridge. Cemented walkways so kids (including the apo) will not have mud on their shoes during rainy June. A kapilya so people would be able to hear mass on Sundays. He always asked for something that would benefit more people (never thinking of himself alone). The little payag looked the same but the taytayan was now cemented.
My grandfather could never be a politician and so would my grandmother. She could have lived with some comfort with land from her side of the family, the Casals & Tenazas, yet she chose not to. (I still could not comprehend the why)
Our neighbors had very high respect for my grandparents. I grew up understanding pride in hard work over owning material things, and to always think past oneself. I grew up with role models who lived to serve others without thinking of themselves. Though I always wished they would have. I also wish I was just like them. Unfortunately, I fail in comparison.

The Original Royals. Auntie Bingbing, Uncle Danny and Mom.
Every year, Christmas reunions would always be at Sto Nino Village hosted by my parents. But this year, my mother and sister did the celebrating at Sikatuna. My grandparents have long passed away and now Auntie Bingbing lives here with her kids and grandchildren together with my Uncle Danny (the only male sibling).
The house looked the same as I remembered except for improvements that Auntie Bingbing had to do. It is an old house but Lolo and Lola’s legacy lives on. It is now gated and cemented. The lives of people who live there have now changed for the better.
I remember Sikatuna today because one of my best memories of childhood were spent reading Tom Sawyer at the kayda & listening to Sergio Mendez played on a turn table.
Best of all, Sikatuna was were I grew up a princess.